ok in my day we as kids were to a certain extent were allowed to work the beating of snot out among ourselves ... now me with a handicap I beat the crap out of one of the toughest kids in class put him in his place and elevated me several levels Today I know its all different the best advice would be sit your son down and tell him he's better that that ...... aww shoot take the offending kid where no one can see and beat him silly I mean your son not you today the talking to is the better choice hope this helps