Thoughts from a married woman...

Married blissfully for 14 years. Although he'd never admit it, about 3 years ago I brought up to my husband that maybe he'd like to try to have an affair? Or, we could try to find a "third" for a threesome, etc. I know he'd love to try to live out his 3some fantasy. What man wouldn't? But, he justs didn't seem to be very motivated. I dunno... cared too much about how I'd feel after? That's my guess. I finally suggested swinging. That way, we BOTH win. Swinging worked for us for a few years. Then we both eventually lost interest. And are currently a happy and still blissfully married couple. Neither one of us has any regrets, and if he wanted to go back to swinging, I'd be right there beside him. So, have you considered swinging?