I trust my wife implicitly, but I've also told her that if she does get the itch for some different meat, she has to let me know when & where, so I can watch.

Seriously (not that I'm just spoofing with the above remark), I have no experience to offer in this matter, but I have seen poly relationships go very well, & very badly too. The big hitch seems to be that nobody can tell if they're emotionally equipped to handle multiple partners until they dive in head first, & that's a lousy time to find the answer is "NO". For most, I think the best bet is to make it part of fantasy play, where hurt feelings tend to be more easily healed...but then again, what do I know?

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