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Old 04-28-2009, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Oldfart
When you can remove the emotional connection, it'll all just fade into irrelevancy, it just plain won't matter any more.


This makes a lot of sense to me. Looking back now at some of the girlfriends from my past (specifically the ones that have hurt me), the pain and hurt I remember suffering through has basically faded away to a dim memory. While I don't talk to most of them anymore, there is one that I still hear from on occasions. In the past, we both hurt each other in many different ways. But we've both grown since then, and now we have what most people would consider a true friendship, and none of the hurt is remembered. It seems that old adage may be true, time heals all wounds.
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