now i always said id never date a lady with kids but recently started dating a lady with a young son (13)
he is great and we are like mates, i was the same age when my dad left so know what its like have men date your mom
i know he is part of his moms live and he comes before me
his dad has never been around since he was born
and to be fair i have had no trouble from him we just hit it off
the only trouble is the father (not dad ) he still see's the child as a weapon to hurt his ex, just spent 4 days there that turned into 7 cause the arse wouldn't bring him back, its a good job he's over 100 miles away is all ill say
the child doesn't want to see his father anymore, his father pays no matianace so thats that,