Mr Nadia, and Nadia.

Either you have a relationship of love AND respect, or you have a farce.

It feels real, looks real from the outside, but it is a charade.

We all have desires which would be met very nicely by "refreshment sex"

with an outsider, but unless the marriage is one of those very rare ones

which thrives on expanded intimacy, it's a joke.

"If you loved me you'd let me fuck my brains out with outsiders" isn't a statement of love, but emotional blackmail.

Get real while (or if) you have something to get real about.

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