I was in a love tri- quadr- angle in my twenties. The term 'Polyamory' wasn't coined then. Being poly is not an easy life of free loving. It's a decision to be transparent, utterly honest, open, trusting, trustworthy, and many hundreds of other character strengths and most certainly among the more important traits is RESPECT. Complete and unconditional. Goto the polyamory site and read about how to fuck up a relationship. It's correct in about every way.
HAVE FUN and be loving!!!

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I like; a) taint brushing: b) a good cigar: c) our juices together; d) champagne: e) protein squirts; f)more of these; g)much more of these; h) Damn, slide that thing into me. Deep!
Adage: 2 things are certain in life; Death & Taxes. Therefore; God & Beelzebub had a meeting to fix the problem. A mighty storm prevailed for ages until finally they ended the storm with the agreement: From now on Anyone whom chooses doesn't have to die. "Everyone wins said Beelzebub. You get an eternally grateful bunch of worshippers praying forever for lower taxes as I goad & prod them forever with higher & higher taxation."