My oldest brother drowned on July 4 1987 at the age of 29. I personally found his body 5 days later at 5pm. Every year since at 5pm I drink a toast to my brother at 5pm.

I am a very very positive person and I adopted a John Lennon line at that moment that helped life make more sense. "Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans!"

Through my brothers death I learned to LIVE life....not just exist in it. I wish the same sentence upon every single person that reads this! LIVING LARGE here!!