
03-04-2008, 01:34 PM
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: Music City
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Originally Posted by 1nutworld
I've avoided this this topic because I've had a hard time recovering from when I was fired.
At first there was the shock, dissapointment and confusion from the act of being fired itself. After thinking that it wouldn't be long that I would be in the unemployment line, I went into a state of denial that "I" was the problem.
Upon further reveiw, I WISH that I had just put my boots on and my nose to the grindstone, and hit the floor running in my pursuit of a new job.
After spending 3 months mildy applying for a new job, I started in earnest. It became obvious that the job market where I live, was for crap. I spend the next months applying for any job I could find, some jobs repeatedly, just hoping for a chance.
The bottom line is that I was out of work for 336 days. I'm still mildly searching for other work, as my current "day job" has no long-term opportunity. My 2nd job is very competitive and there are few openings, so that isn't likely to turn into something that I can do full time, but I am doing my best to be in the right place at the right time.
Between the hard economy and my own having a job history that bounces from industry to industry, in search of a "career", I found losing my job to be a very life altering and completely devistating experience.
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I know the feeling myself, nut...It's a devastating loss, & sometimes, the harder the crash, the longer it takes to emerge from the state of shock. Don't blame yourself for not hitting the ground running...I spent over 2 1/2 yrs out of work myself, for some reason nobody wanted to hire a 50ish diabetic with a bad back, can you believe that?
I can sense in you the same state of mind that I was in not so long ago. I know it sounds like empty words, but keep hangin' in there...I also sense that you are a survivor like me...
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