Dude...get out now. I'll probably get hung out to dry by the ladies here, but I've been living through this for a LONG time. I'm totally in love with my wife. We have a great relationship, and we're going to stay together because I'm kinda old fashioned when it comes to commitments. My sex life is completely dead, and it's extremely frustrating. If you want to live like this for the rest of your life, then go right on ahead, but I'm telling you right now that it doesn't get any better. In fact, it get worse. And trust me, I'm not just talking out of my butt here. We've tried all kinds of counseling over the past 17 years, and there's nothing you can do about it. You either bail out, or you get ready for a very bad sex life.

<------ Hides behind bushes to avoid flying garbage from pissed off women...

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