OK, just to add to what people have said here, the cervix is a mobile body part (ask any midwife). I don't really understand the mechanics of it, but I do know that it is capable of raising and lowering which something over which a woman does not have control.

From personal experience, I've noticed that Fussy sometimes struggles to make it all the way inside me these days but that we never had that problem back in the days when we were in a long distance relationship and always had about 2 weeks of mental foreplay before having sex. Obviously these days, with the pressures of not waking the baby, my tension sometimes about him hurting me where my stitches are and the obvious, been-together-five-years-and-see-each-other-every-day I'm probably less turned on than in those heady early days. I tell you this as a personal observation which supports other people's advice here - it's NOT a complaint about my own relationship. We're more than happy with our sex life.

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