I have been to a ton of bachelor parties that have been to strip clubs and also at guy's houses.

The one's at a house are much wilder and the girls are much more "interactive" shall I say.
I tell my S/O everything that goes on at them. Who participated and what happened and what the stripper looks like. She is actually interested and sometimes even gives some of my friends shit about it just for fun.
Also, she doesn't mind me going to a strip club once in a great while with the guys, in fact, sometimes only my S/O is the only one out of all my friends that knows. The other guys don't even tell theirs they are going. She figures, "is he really going to leave me for a stripper?" Probably not.
We have been to strip clubs together even and she just laughs at the chicks. Oh well, it works for us and keeps the jealousy to a minimum.

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