I can understand the idea behind it. For many that meet in person after a long time online relationship has taken place, a face to face meeting is but an extension of their life together.

But obviously it's important to know who you're going to meet.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.