I must admit that I've suffered from ED a couple of times in my life, both of which while I was married.

I had an incredibly stressful job that took it's toll on me physically. One of the symptoms was ED.

And more recently...I've found it very difficult to maintain an erection while glancing nervously about in fear of getting caught taking nudie pictures at work.


I think Dr. Love is using a common stereotypical attitude to garnish some attention.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.