I'm 12 years older than my fiance. I DO agree that compatibility and how young you act or feel is very important, as well as whether you are on the same wavelength so to speak sexually. However, I DO get concerned at times if he'll still think of me the same way when I am 70 and he isn't even 60 yet. "Old" women are at best not looked on as sexy and at worst are the brunt of jokes (as in "Who'd want to have sex with a woman THAT ancient?!") I don't mean to come across as bitter, just realistic, and a little scared. In the mean time, though, we're both having the time of our lives (and he's trying his best to match my sex drive).

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