Three men and their wives were on a cruise. A tidal wave came up and swamped the ship, they all drowned, and next thing you know, they're standing before St. Peter.

The first man stepped up.

St. Peter shook his head sadly. "I can't let you in. You loved money too much. You loved it so much, you even married a woman named Penny."

He said to the second man "Sorry, can't let you in, either. You loved food too much. You loved to eat so much, you even married a woman named Candy."

Aqua turned to his wife and whispered nervously, "It doesn't look good, Fanny."

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.