03-09-2007, 09:56 PM
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Sin Diesel
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: Brooklyn, NYC
Posts: 1,338
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Originally Posted by Sisyphus
The other question and the other reason I feel like this is, doesn't anyone like subtly and passion anymore? *Thanks Robert Lamm for the song :lol: * I mean it just seems like all ppl what to do anymore is fuck and move on...they dont wanna get close and tease and have fun. Sex to me is an extension of love, not something you share with a stranger on the street or at the bar, doesnt it seem like everything about good old fashion love is dead??
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I don't see anything wrong with just wanting sex, but there's no excuse in treating the other person like shit or less than human or showing less respect than they deserve just because they want that. Some people aren't fully into themselves sexually enough to respect others when wanting sex just for fun. It's fucked to have to deal with those types, but not everyone is like that...and there are people out there who aren't so jaded that they can't take it slower...even if it's just for play.
I'm one of those people not really meant to have a conventional relationship with someone that leads to marriage, kids, dog & cat, etc...although I can't write it out completely —*things could change in the future, I don't have a crystal ball — I'm just not feeling that happening at all anymore. I gave most of my twenties towards trying to have that and in doing so, I've paid my price with failures of bridges I ain't crossing again...so right now I'm comfortable and having fun in being relatively single and enjoying the company of casual dating and sex. I don't want a solid relationship right now unless the other can be open and reeeealy patient. There's things I want and need to do that I neglected in my earlier years...and I can't give properly to another for marriage or whatever until I've accomplished those things. Therefore, I'm keeping it light. And that comes from knowing myself and not lying about what I want.
So, I'd just say know yourself and know what you want — really want — before getting with others. Then, if you're on the track for wanting a future instead of a few movie dates, lay down that law from the git-go so you don't have to deal with unnecessary bullshit. Be straight-up and be honest. And be vigilant!
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