Little questions always bring the big answers out of me...but I'm going to try to keep my answer here appropriately brief.

Ditto to Oldfart's answer. There's potentially a whole hell of a lot of bad feeling here, it can't be worth it. And if it is worth it, I think you probably have to wrap up the problems at home BEFORE venturing abroad.

I _have_ to ask though, as an absolutely unreformable flirt....are you sure that she's making a pass, and not just doing some heavy flirting with a "safe" target who won't call her bluff? If someone didn't know me, they could be REALLY confused about my intentions.

G