"The best laid plans of mice and men ...and expectant parents …"

I think you have just confronted the FIRST coin tossing dilemma of real life parenthood. This is actually an easy one as only your condition, actions and reactions with the world are involved. And this one is going to be resolved very soon, regardless. Not to worry though. You only have another quarter century of these things ahead of you now.
There are two good points to all this. First, you will become proportionally better adapt as the situations become more complex and by the time they leave to deal with these things in their own life, you will have learned you don't have any more absolute answers with guaranties than you have now, but you'll be more comfortable dealing with them and that they DO work out and become the milestones that our lives are built on.

The other point is that I hope you were able to divert your thoughts for just a few seconds, reading this.

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