Lou,

Your insecurities are your own, your property, your problems, your challenges.

The glitz of commercial porn is a bit like car commercials, you look and know that there almost no connection with the real world.

"slightly overweight pregnant brunettes with cellulite and stretch marks " with jollies on their mind are much more realistic, but perhaps too close to the bone for some.

The body is the shell for the sexy mind, and you need to see (and live) past the
shell.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating