I have experimented a lot with this very topic, and until this past Saturday...I'd firmly believed that the best handjob lube ever was KY's warming gel.

I went to the Big E roughly a week ago and while there, I saw a vendor selling Emu Oil. They praised the numerous benefits of Emu Oil and obviously...I had a good wank in mind when I dropped $8.50 on a small bottle. Let me tell you, it was worth every cent. Just enough soaks in to your skin to make it feel soft & slippery but not greasy or oil-soaked. I highly recommend it for a wonderful handjob, and I have every intention to try it and report back to you after a long, languid tit-fuck.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.