Absolutely what ^^he said...if asking him outright seems too forward, listen to his body language...even if he's not the vocal type, his movements & breathing will tell ya what you need to know...

...& if you find yourself with a mouthful of gooey spoo, that's a surefire sign that he likes what ya did...

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