Lixy - I found the same thing ..... "not the only dysfunctional family around" in fact, seems to me from everyone I meet and/or talk with .... that most of us come from some kind of dysfunctional situation ... at differing levels of course!

And one of the really positive things that has come of such a background for me .... I know NOT to judge others because I have too many skeletons in my own closet to worry about what someone else may have done. lol