Thanks All She's going to come and stay with me for a few days before I leave for the UK. He is going with a guy friend to the Wisconsin Dells.

When I told my parents what had happened (just in case i was needed to travel to their place, and they could watch my kids) they were truely saddened, too.

He is having her move out, so my parents have said that while I am away, she is more than welcome to stay here.

She is going to seek counselling through her university student health, and they both plan on continuing with college because both have a semester to complete and then they can graduate.

I still haven't talked to him, but she has said that he asks a lot if she has spoken to me that day.

So as with the rest of life, it is day by day.