07-20-2006, 10:42 AM
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: Music City
Posts: 9,293
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This is where that time you spent with the circus learning to walk the tightrope over the firepit will prove useful...
All seriousness aside, this will be just about that tricky...
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How do I remain friends with both? How do I stay neutral yet supportive? How do I best approach this situation? How do i not become meddlesome? Anyone with any experience like this?
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every moment you spend with either of this soon-to-be ex couple will be dangerous ground...both will want to vent, & sympathizing without taking sides (or even appearing to) will be a tough nut...hope that you get lucky enough that neither one wants to drag you into the middle, & if you find yourself becoming the rope in this tug-o-war, gently remind the tugger that you are intent on remaining friends with both...
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