Hard place. I can remember being friends with a couple as their marriage dissolved. One person has to be the catalyst for the change but as you have indicated the other has known something was wrong for far longer. Neither is wrong, it's just over. It's possible to be friends with both until one person begins pulling away some. That was what I experienced. I spent a lot of time being neutral yet supportive and then as one of them began to move on they needed me less. We remained friends but just not as close or intense.

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