Good advice, WI.

Back in '82, my wife and I made a Marriage Encounter. Don't know how many of you have heard or gone on one, but it was fantastic. It wasn't for couples having problems per se', just for couples that wanted to become closer. It did that for us. Helped both, I think, to learn how to communicate better without being judgemental.

For us, it was great. And for about 15 years after that, I shared daily love letters with my wife (missing a few ... very few). We don't do that any more, but we still communicate much better than we ever did before the weekend.

We learned how to do what WI talked about.

Might look at the website: http://www.wwme.org/