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Old 07-03-2006, 11:36 PM
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All good advice so far, not much more to add...we lost 2 at about 12 weeks, & she went thru all the guilt, desparation & self loathing that was only slightly healed by having 2 more-than-healthy boys later...as has already been said, it seems to have not been meant to be, & you'll have to keep telling yourself that until your heart starts to believe it...& let him help carry the load, he's probably swallowing his own feelings in that way that all us guys think we're supposed to do...
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