SexKitten18

Self-blame is a wonderful thing, in that it gives you ownership and focus over that which you blame yourself for.

Your stress may not have been helpful, but if the child was so fragile that a little stress was enough, the final trimester and labour would have been likely to have been very bad for mother and child.

If you must feel guilt, harness that guilt and make your next child's pregnancy and childhood a joy for you both.

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