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Old 07-02-2006, 03:35 AM
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Sexkitten_18 - You will go through a whole range of different emotions, and you need to know that whatever you are feeling is absolutely fine. Don't worry about what you think you are SUPPOSED to be feeling, and just try to deal with what you are feeling at the time.

In response to the guilt you feel - it's understandable - I'm learning already that feeling guilty is part of the "parental condition" if you will. Perhaps reading up on some of the facts will help you to realise that this was beyond your control. For example, 1 in 5 pregnancies end in miscarriage in the first 3 months. That's a HUGE figure....most of the time it happens for no explicable reason, other than nature preventing you from having a less than perfect baby. Even when everything is done absolutely to the letter by the mother-to-be things can still go wrong in the early stages - life is very delicate thing.

Take care of yourself, and if you need anything from any of us, don't be afraid to ask for help. It's sometimes the bravest and scariest thing to do, but you need to recognise when something is too much for you to bear alone.
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