^^^ very smart.


Pretty observant too, huh?


At any rate, Lil's right. If you can achieve orgasm alone, then you're psyching yourself out during sex with your girlfriend. Make sex your journey, and remember that journeys without destination can be the most enjoyable outings.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.