06-27-2006, 09:26 AM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
Posts: 21,709
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Originally Posted by Loulabelle
Have you ever considered that feeling kind of vulnerable when naked and not sexual excited may at least in part count for the healthiness of you and Mrs WI's sex life?
Feeling a little nervous around a lover when things get intimate is all part of the thrill of sex, is it not?
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Very good point. Nervousness is a subliminal response to fear having something unpleasant and unwanted happening, like getting rejected. And if I didn't care about what she thought of me...well, I wouldn't be apprehensive. I want to look good for someone I love.
Things were so much simpler when we used to club you over the head and drag you into caves! lmao
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