I was reminded of a time I was sucking my husband off and I stopped suddenly because it was so quiet. He was silent and this bothered me. For me, part of the enjoyment is KNOWING I am getting him off. That HE is enjoying it too. I mean if I wanted to suck off a mime I'd find Marcel Marceau and give him a blow job.

So part of my pleasure comes from knowing I am giving him pleasure.

Oh and after I stopped and asked him if he was enjoying it, he did turn up the volume.

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