I would react much the same as you do WI.

Anytime my wife is naked I get turned on... but she doesn't tend to lounge naked. It's either in the shower or getting ready for bed. There is a bit of a difference in that my wife is more understanding of my sexuality, or so it seems. Not that she accepts my advances, (she playfully pushes me away), but she doesn't make a big deal about it.

I wish there was a compromise the two of you could reach.

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