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Old 09-17-2002, 06:13 PM
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I read this thread this morning and didn't have to time to answer in my true (hey! don't think I don't know I am a jabber jaw!) feelings. In an online relationship I lay my feelings on the line and I hope that things don't become mind games! I can be the jealous type in certain situations but in everyday life I am truly not the jealous type. I don't think I would appreciate hearing my cyber lover explain the details of a recent "in person" encounter. Only because...and here's where the jealousy comes in...I would have wanted to give that physical personal pleasure and I couldn't be there for him! It wouldn't bother me that he had actual physical sex.....the part that would bother me is that it wasn't with me! I know.....this doesn't make sense........but I really can't explian it any better! And as to the other part of the question......NO.....I never share my own personal "in person" sex life with my online lover! I have talked (in general without too many details) about different types of sexual encounters........but never specifics! I just don't see how it could add anything to an online relationship. These relationships are hard enough without adding another dimension!
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