we have already discussed this But I will go ahead and express my opinion here as well.

I think that it depends heavily on the expectations of the friendships in question. IF, from the beginning there has been no expectations of the friendship evolving into anything serious that would filter over to the everyday "real" world, then I believe that the other party is probably going to be less jealous and condemning of the actions of the other. In fact, sharing the details with the other person may be a way for that person to show encouragement and support.

Personally, in the online friendships I have with my playmates.. I am the first to support them and even urge them to have sexual encounters in their "real" life.. and yes, I would love to hear the details tho I have never asked out of respect for them. If they want to share those with me.. that is wonderful.. but it is not expected.

Now.. if the shoe was on the other foot.. and I was the one being intimate with a man in my "real" life.. my sharing it with my online playmates would depend heavily on the opinion of the other guy involved. I am not the sort to kiss and tell.. but if a close playmate wanted to know the gist of things.. I would clue them in