We (my wife and I) both know many ways of satisfaction, but after awhile that isn’t what’s missing.

We are reading a book titled “Reclaiming your sexual self” by Kathryn Hall Ph.D.
It addresses many subjects, like low self esteem and other issues.
It’s not about blame, it’s not a problem it isn’t going to ruin our love for each other.

We are working at solving what maybe the problem, but they aren’t any wrongs involved.

My wife is 68 years old and I’m 69, I have a sex drive she doesn’t.
We are friends, lovers and life long pals.
Sex is a act of relaxation and fun, she wants me to enjoy.