We do a little anal sex. Mrs. Soundman's first husband was abusive and he would hurt her. So once she told me about that, I never even brought it up. But she brought it up once, and we experimented and she realized that it could be pleasurable. So now, it is an "alternative". Not something that either of us want a steady diet of, but it is a good "treat" every now and then.

She has played around with my ass a few times. It's okay for me, but it kind of messes with my head a little. Just doesn't feel "normal" to me. Not weird or anything, just foreign. I guess I can take it or leave it.

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