BOY! WE NEED TO TALK! Okay, trying to NOT be biased being that I actually SELL sex toys, here's the lo down.

It all depends on what you get. I suggest starting with something small....a pocket pussy perhaps which is a hand-held sleeve. My husband and I have used one on him during pregnancy recoveries and such and from his mouth he says that it feels like the same thing, just not warm like a real woman. My solution to that, place it in warm water for a while if you want to see HOW REAL you can experience it. If a pocket pussy does it for you, then you can try upgrading to something more expensive such as the two holed pussy/ass combo that you can place on your bed or such and try that and just work your way up to what you are comfortable with.

From my experience I can tell you what we've found is the best IS the Pocket Pussy type sleeves because you can get a variance of motion as well as your s/o or yourself being able to manipulate it with much less work than pounding into a doll or the pussy/ass combo. Give me a PM and we can discuss this in more detail. There is so much more to tell!