Guys make out like it's the biggest thing to have sex with a virgin. I mean what is the difference in sex with a virgin than a girl who isn't. really it's got be the same right?! and if it's so great for us why do you hear all these horror stories from girls and even some boys about it?! I mean these guys tease and bug you till your head is ready to expode! and the idea of hearing in the hallways that a guy is describing what you look like naked and what he did to you is enough to make you wanna die!! so anyway what's it all mean and what should girls do when their fed up?!! I mean sometimes I feel like if I do it'll shut'em up, but then there's the fears I have and my freinds too. especially one of my freinds, she has a real bad time with little pains let alone a major one. sometimes her periods put her in tears. so stop twisting words around and just let us know the things I feel we have every right to know. thanx, Angie & company!!