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I share almost everything about my sex/love/social life with other women who are close friends. The details, if we are talking about a same-sex relationship, may be changed if the person I am talking to doesn't know I am bi, and I may obscure names and identities, but we share.
But men, well....
I have a story like Jenna's to share.
About 2 years after my annulment, I hooked up with a man who knew my ex only slightly.
Or so I thought.
We only went out a for a few months, it wasn't very serious.
But I was strangely affected to learn, after we had begun having sex, that he knew A LOT about what I liked to do in bed!! (with men, my ex never learned that I was bi)
This man, who barely knew my husband, and had only met me once before, knew all kinds of sexual details about me!!
He and my husband had been drinking together once or twice, and this was enough, it seems, to let my ex feel free to share ALL the DETAILS of what we did, from oral sex ,or sex in the car, or outdoors, to my enjoyment of anal sex!! He ( my date) knew details about how I liked to be touched, and even my favorite positions.
I had all kinds of strange feelings about this.
During a little late night pillow talk, he shared all the things my ex had told him.
Part of me was thrilled to learn that my ex considered me a "wild tiger" in bed, and "loves to suck cock," ..... " loves to wiggle her ass while being fucked".. "loves to show off her tits"... "loves to give head in the car"... and "likes having her ass played with while fucked on all fours"... and how we had "fucked in the limo after the (wedding) reception with the driver watching". He knew about nibbling my neck, ( brrrrrrrrrr), and caressing my bottom.. ( sigh) and what those things did to me.
There is more, but you get the idea. ( too much more, really)
I was angry with my ex about his sharing intimate details with someone he barely knew!!
And now I knew how I had ended up in bed so quickly with an ex co-worker of my ex's!!
But I was also thrilled in a deep sexual way of me that I was considered such "a good fuck" by someone who probably hated me by now.

I have spent years trying to decide how I really felt/feel about this.

WW