starting i love getting head. i feel a little guilty getting blown though seems kind of one sided. personaly i need the reassurance that i'm not the only one enjoying themself. at least i think that's what it is. anyway i find that a large portion of good sex is mental. if i feel weird or start worrying about life in general i see that i don't perform as well. thinking takes valuble blood and moves it away from my cock and puts it towards my brain. been told i'm normal and during sex i find it's better to let the little head do the thinking. this might apply to your man's problem

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