at one point i was having sex with three differant women going from one to an other. i told all three they weren't the only one. later after this ended i was telling a female friend about it. i told her i had been slutting around. she asked me to explain. when i told her i was the slut she laughed and said as long as i understood that it was all good.
my point being i don't see being a slut as gender based. i've described plenty of my male friends to their face as sluts.
finally, if i call a woman a slut during sex i don't mean that anymore than if i call her a bitch or a whore. damn i really wouldn't want any of those 3 and if i'm there that should scream that they're just role playing words. i've heard and believe the way to a woman's heart (other than straight through the ribs) is to know when to treat her like a lady and when to treat her like a whore

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