Well I totally know about the complaining part. When i was having sex with my ex it was horrible. I mean so bad that after 5 minutes you are looking for an excuse to get out of the situeation. I mean i wouldnt believe it but a bj can make you loose your hard on. I did complain that she made no effort (laid there and did nothing) and she never listened. The play station thing is just wierd though. If i had a gf or wife that was willing to do it every night hell with the computer and video games. I would be up till 5 am but not on the computer but rather on her lol.