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Originally Posted by Mark Vieth
What to do here......Let's see............... Oh yeah that's right, just some questions that you may want to think about.
Are you verbal during sex? Do you rock his world in the sack? A good thing to try is to take his hand and lead him into the bedroom and undress him without saying a word and see what happens.....who knows you may get some surprises.......lol!!!!
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Well, where do I start with this comment that you wrote Mark.
1st of all I am not very verbal, he wants me to be but I am not and have never been like that, it is just awkard for me, I don't know why but it just is.
Well, I musn't " rock his world " as you put it as he alway's complains about sex afterwards aswell.
You see my s/o has a son who is 7, and we normally take him into mine and his bedroom and tickle him, so when I have tried in the past to do as you suggested he think I am taking him in there to tickle him, but that is far from the case. There is also the fact that he is on the PS2 most of the night till 3-4 and even 5am and by the time he get's around to comming to bed I am not in the mood for sex anymore.
Getting onto what you have said about trying new things with him, I have in the past and he has given me funny looks, and said to me what are you doing? He has made me feel really uncomfortable and reluctant to try new things because of his attitude when I have done so before.
So do you think that you can still help me on this one MARK ?????????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????