Irish - i think the thing about good phone sex is that it relies on a degree of honesty and trust or else it doesn't work. I would never lie to someone about what i was wearing etc during phone sex. In fact, one time AK asked me what i was wearing and i had to reply 'my work uniform' (i was working for a bank at the time). However, that wasn't such a bad thing because he admitted that he found that quite a turn on. Anyway, if your phone sex partner doesn't find the way you choose to dress sexy, it doesn't bode well for everything else, does it?

Personally, I have a tendency to dress for the man in my life even if he's not with me. It's a turn on to be wearing something you know your partner finds sexy, even if he isn't there to see it! Perhaps it's just me who does that, though . . . .

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