Hi BamaKyttn. I've been with my g/f for almost 4 years now, and we've definitely been through our rough times, too. It sounds like you are really confused about what's going on in your g/f's head right now. If I were you, I would try and have an open discussion about what's going on here outside the bedroom. I know at least for me, it's really hard to talk about things that have to do with sex, the relationship, etc. when I'm lying in bed, either half asleep or with other things on my mind. Have you asked what prompted her to make the "going straight" comment in the first place? What's on her mind? Is it that she wants to try new things sexually? (Like, does she want to use a strap on?) If she does want to try different things, you need to ask yourself if you are wiling to. It sounds like she might be frustrated with you pulling away after the breast play, which isn't anyone's fault. I know emotions can run high during this sort of thing, but you two really should talk about. I know if my g/f told me not to play with her breasts, I would be really depressed about it, so maybe you two need to sit down and have an honest discussion about what's going on in your relationship. If you can't do that, is the relationship really worth saving?