I tend to agree with Capoc Kyttn. I know she is a few years older than you. Thes are complex issuesand it is difficult to comment not knowing the personality of your friend. Obviously emotions, biological clocks, self doubt and self scrutiny are all involved here. She has to decide her path and you have to be yourself, you can't change for anyone, you are you and your reactions should be true. You don't have to be callous about things but be sensetive, caring and supportive.

Take care Kyttn, I have a lot of respect and fondness for you.