sorry.. but I will never change my personal opinion that size really doesn't matter. I have been with a man (35 years old) who was only 4 inches erect... and I have been with men who are on the high side of the average scale.

I agree with heatluvintxn that those men who think (rightly or wrongly) that they are on the low side of average tend to make more of an effort in other ways. Not only have they made the effort to better their oral skills, but they are also more willing to experiment with positions and toys in order to bring more fulfillment for their partner and themselves.

Sorry.. but there is more things that are important in sexuality than the size of the penis. Just because a man is on the high side of average doesn't mean that he knows how to use it in the right manner. The ability to pleasure someone with your penis isn't something that automatically comes naturally.. but is something that is learned from the act itself.