I had to consider this since the thread was started. It broke down to the groups of people that touch my life. S/O, family, friends, and acquaintances. I’m too old (and I hope too smart) to have causes any more, so there’s no need to carry a banner about my personal life. So it’s a question of who I share Pixieville with.
Acquaintances (and even near friends), being the largest group, (sometimes TOO large), are the people I feel no need to share my bank balance or any other personal information with. I have no problem acknowledging this it’s not a bad thing that places like it exist.
Friends are people I count on my fingers and toes. I have mentioned that I visit such a place and enjoy the hell out of it. I would be comfortable with any of them coming here and knowing who I am. That’s why they’re my friends.
Our close family is pleased that each of us have a happy sex life and respect each others privacy.
An intimate lover is the only person that needs to know and share my citizenship here. As jennaflower said in the beginning, “because I think sharing this with them would give them a more complete understanding of who I am...” is also very true for me. If we’re not sharing our complete selves, we’re with the wrong people.

Just a thought.

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